Dating approach anxiety
As I have said in the previous article, “Knowledge is nothing without the practical application and consistent practice.” Since I went over a lot of the causes and how to mentally re-align yourself by providing you with new “hard truths” and debunking some common myths that men deal with when it comes to talking to attractive women, in this article I will go over tactics and drills you can apply to effectively manage yourself and overcome the hurdle of approach anxiety.
Now before I get into the specifics and tactics you can do to overcome it, I want to lay out disclaimers that a lot of men seem to have a hard time believing.
It’s completely understandable seeing that it’s only week two and the guys who are in this current cycle like all my previous students are new to the dating game.
Of course and without a doubt the guys in the class come from different backgrounds and have a varied amount of life experiences but one thing they all have in common is the struggle of being stuck in their dating lives.
While the threats aren’t physical, our brains can’t distinguish between a physical and psychological threat. A lot of approach anxiety is rooted in trying to protect ourselves from the emotional threat of rejection and social embarrassment.
It’s actually one of the easiest things they learn during the weekend.It comes from the same part of the brain (the “amygdala”) that activates when you go bungee-jumping or get on a big roller coaster.In other words, it’s a sign that you are doing something RIGHT. Even the best guys in the world – top Love Systems instructors – get approach anxiety sometimes, especially on the first approach of the day. approach anxiety sure doesn’t FEEL very good when a beautiful woman is walking by.If you’re like most men, you probably LOOKED for risks: a higher tree to climb, a higher diving board to jump off of, crazy adventures with your buddies, etc... One of Braddock’s favourite quotes: “Failure weighs ounces, regret weighs tons.” You didn’t come to Love Systems so you could get just any girl.Obviously, the best way to solve approach anxiety once and for all is to work with a Love Systems instructor.